How to make a good decision

 Last week, my peer review result at work released.

They said, i have a good communication and coordination skill. I can follow the office rules, and also inisiative enough to start or doing the tasks. My weakness is my ability to make a decision. 

I am a bit surprised, because it's obvious. 

Yes, I am struggling with making decision especially life decision. I didn't expect people can see it from my job. 

As i grow, a lot of my life decision was not choose by me, but my parent. Where to study, what activities, even chlotes. My mom can bought me chlotes even when i didn't join her shopping. I always accepted it. It can be double meaning. First, i don't wanna dissapoint her, i appreciate her choices, even if it wasnt really fit my style, i just accepted it. Also because thats her money, not mine. But second, it can also mean that i cannot make a decision for my self. About chlotes maybe seems like small thing, but it's not until i had to face hard choices for my life like what job will fit me, what to choose between continue study or struggle applying jobs, and also what kind of person would be my husband, when the best time to married, and any other hard decision in life. 

From here, what can i learn is maybe we have to make our children choose what their want for them. Start from simple things, elevate to hard things.

But i didn't blame my parent, i know that ofc they want the best for their children. Everybody is just a leaner.